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What Do Guys Get Confused About in Serious Relationships?

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I wasn’t able to blog yesterday and the day before because all I really did was sleep. I haven’t gotten so much sleep for the whole week last week because of my new job. I’m still enjoying my job but it gets boring so I’m hoping I get this new position which is what I really applied for in the first place.

Last week wasn’t really great for me and this guy I was dating. After making him feel ignored, he didn’t text me again. So last Friday, I decided to contact him first and tried harder to bring back what we started. Finally, after leaving a message to his voicemail, he called me back 5 minutes after. I really think he was there the whole time but just didn’t pick up right away, lol. But I refused to bring up that one, lol.

So the reason he told me why he didn’t contact me for almost a week was because he wanted me to concentrate on my new work. He thought that I need time to get used to my new job and so it’s impossible to go out with him. But he admitted that he was kind of upset when I didn’t go for dinner with him last Monday which added up to his reasons. I’m happy that he’s being honest to me. Nonetheless, at a certain point, I feel like he’s not ready for a relationship. I’m not ready either but I feel like I need someone right now. Not just a friend, but more. I still like him but he gets me confused.

Can anyone share what guys get confused about in serious relationships?

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  1. Morgan December 6, 2010

    I often get confused when girls make things overly complicated. I tend to believe most men like to use the K.I.S.S. Method. Keep It Simple Stupid! 😛

    Great article.


    • PenelopePardee December 7, 2010

      girls wont make things complicated if it wasnt because of guys lol! I’ll remember that k.i.s.s method 😛 thanks for dropping by 🙂

  2. Sis December 6, 2010

    Don’t worry P — it will get better!! It’s hard for everybody moving to a new city. I think you should just call him up and make a date with him yourself, if he is cute that is “-)

    • PenelopePardee December 7, 2010

      thank you sis! we’ll surely go out this week. he’s cute and yummy 😀

  3. Dunlop December 18, 2010

    I think you are mistaken. It’s much easier.

  4. Eric December 21, 2010

    Hi, my name is Eric 27 yrs old and that is the same question I got from the girls that I am dating. The reason why they were asking because I date more than girls in a week and with that said they think I am not serious having a serious relationship. I would be honest with you with my own reason and I think I just want to pay around first before getting into a serious relationship. I am just afraid of commitment but still want someone to be with. Need help!

    • PenelopePardee January 6, 2011

      lol, i wouldnt be dating with u.. but im glad that youre being honest about it. and you should be honest with the girls too. some girls do the same, so nothing to worry guys. whats more important i think is when youre already ready to settle down, you shouldnt play around anymore.

  5. Karen December 21, 2010

    If that guy is serious about you then I think he would keep on calling you no matter what regardless if you have a new job. I got his point that he doesn’t want to disturb you but that’s not enough for him not to call back or get in touch with you. Dump him! Im here and found someone like me…lol…peace! I think that is normal for guys now a day.

    • PenelopePardee January 6, 2011

      yeh right. but we still contact each other once in a while. i was just busy with holidays so we didnt date for a while. but probably this week or next lol

  6. Akash January 6, 2011

    Few dayz ago, i was confused with my relation. It was all about that how much she love me or she does not??? O.o?

    Somethings its make me think about future.
    Can we really meet our life in future. Or does she move with someone else???

    And I cant trust her bcoz she lie with me! -_-”
    but i dnt like to poke those lies and can u suggest what to do???
    and Will I move forward my relationship with her ???

    • PenelopePardee January 6, 2011

      im no expert coz i have failed in some few relationships as well. but i think the best thing to do is talk to her. i believe love and trust should go hand in hand. without trust is no love at all. if youre considering her for your future, talk to her. youll surelly know the answer later on. 🙂


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