What’s Up With Anal Sex

Can someone explain the whole anal sex thing to me? I mean, I know how it works (obviously – I may be naive, but not that bad!!), but can a girl really enjoy it? I’ve never done it. The thought of a guy going up my back end doesn’t really turn me on. The toys that I’ve got the courage to purchase are WAY too big for me to even experiment on my own. I know that they make special toys that can help with anal, and I bet that the porn stars that I see every day do it as well – so it can’t be that bad, right?

What I don’t understand, though, is that if anal sex is so great, why do they make sex lubes that make you not feel it? I see anal desensitizing gels advertised on sex toy web sites like Adam and Eve. Is this for the partner who really doesn’t like anal, but just does it for their partner? Is it for first timers, to take the edge off? If it makes the ‘receiving end’ not feel it, I would assume that some of the gel ends up on the ‘throwing end’ – would that make him feel it less too?

I guess I’m not totally closed off to the idea of anal sex. Hell, the fact that I’ve even talked about it is a big step for me given where my mind was (sexually) this time last year. Maybe I’ll ask one of the girls the next time they get to chatting with me. Though – how to you bring up this topic with an adult star? “Oh, hi. How’s it going? So, do you do anal and does it make you feel good?” Alright, maybe not that forward, but you know what I mean.

So – tell me. What’s so great about anal? Inquiring minds want to know!!

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