What To Do and Not Do After You Sleep With That Cute Guy From Work
According to FOX21 News Survey, over 50 percent of people have gotten busy with a colleague. Sound convincing? Before it happens to you, read this following article from Cosmopolitan and find out the do’s and don’ts after doing the dirty with someone from work.
1. Do: Choose Your Office Sex Buddy Wisely
Before jumping into bed with that hottie in the next cube, do some due diligence. Aside from the precautions you’d take before going out with any other guy (i.e. making sure he doesn’t have a rap sheet), take a pass on sexing it up with your superior. If word gets out, colleagues will think you’re sleeping your way to the top and that gossip will spread like wildfire.
2. Don’t: Ignore the Emotional Implications
The biggest mistake women make before sleeping with a colleague is not considering what could happen emotionally when a work fling ends. As in, would you be okay with having to look at the guy—and work with him—every day? Yes? Okay, go for it.
3. Don’t: Walk in Together
If the deed is already done, you should never walk in together or even arrive together. Unless you’re going to start officially dating—and need to disclose the situation per company policy—keep the sexcapades on the DL.
4. Do: Work Harder
Amp up your output in the office, especially if you’re worried word might get out. Make sure your work is better than standard because if people are judging you, you want to be known as someone who does their job, and not someone who does the office.
5. Don’t: Tell Your Work BFF What Happened
As tempting as it might be dishing with your cabinet about how hot your work crush is in bed, resist the urge. Even if she promises not to tell anyone else, she’ll probably tell one person, who will tell just one person and before you know it, everyone knows.
6. Don’t: Try to “Accidentally” Run into Him
We get it. You just had mind-blowing sex with the guy down the hall and now you’re jonesing for another fix, even just a glimpse of his perfect ass in those slacks. Stay strong—and stay away. (As in don’t pop by his office, don’t g-chat him, and don’t take the long way to the bathroom so you can glide by his open door.) But, don’t outright try to avoid him either. Try to behave normally.
7. Do: Talk About What Happened
Whether or not you think you want to pursue a relationship, definitely broach the subject with him so things don’t get weird. Make sure to do it quietly outside of the office and away from the go-to happy hour hangout.
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